Always good to see some updates from those who have been at this for some time. We figure things out and roll up our sleeves and attempt to go on about our 'new' lives but its hard if not impossible to check that mirror to see who is tailgating us from time to time. I agree with the sentiment above, seems he is simply trying to fill the empty with the new rush, car, SUV, pool, wedding. I do hope you come back more often and keep us posted as with so many here its good to see where people are several years past BD though the trend and urge is to just move on.