As much as we the LBS feel that betrayal, I would imagine its even worse for your girls who at the age they are at could really use the mother as well .. lets be honest us fellas can only say and do so much in that arena. I will say just by reading and observing that the R your 2 daughters have with each other is whats getting them through this and something that I would guess is going to last far beyond the MLC crisis ... silver linings right?
Indifference is absolutely the place to be in all this ... I hae found its where peace lives.