I have not been aggressively pursuing her, but have been trying to be friendly/open/warm/cheerful when we are around each other, but she has definitely backslid into "don't touch me it seems weird, don't compliment me it doesn't make me feel like it should, don't be nice to me it seems forced" territory at times.
Sure sounds like pursuit to me. Why are you still pursuing her? Again, IMO your best bet to reconcile is to separate.
