A familiar story with questions. II

[RR17]

Okay, I really don't think I am trying to mislabel anything.

Is this a boundary you had previously set, or are you wanting to call it boundary after the fact? If she dishonored your boundary, then you are the only one who has an action response........which should have some type of consequence for her.

As a personal boundary set within myself, yes. This meeting with the L wasn't supposed to be an act of aggression. She said she was going to gather information. Information to have an amicable D because I didn't want to S.

I believe that this meeting may have woken her up from a Fog. IDK
She has been nice and respectful and more friendly since going. All good stuff.
The problem is she has never expressed her findings or whether she plans to proceed or not. Nothing.

I have been patient for a week. Wait for the shoe to drop only she has done an 180. So much so that as of now I am leaning toward WAW instead of WW. Again IDK.

What do I plan to say? Well, I'm still contemplating saying anything. If I did I guess it would be along the lines of "I have been wondering what you found out and what your next move is?"
Yea, I know sounds like an R talk.