RR, it may help if you can post what you are planning on saying to her? Letting someone know about a boundary is generally done when the boundary is crossed, no need to have a R talk when stating a boundary, it's more of a matter of fact statement, such as:

(WW is being disrespectful to you during a conversation) You state that I will not be disrespected, if you disrespect me again I will not continue this conversation. (She disrespects you again) You tell her that you are hanging up, or walking away, and the conversation can be continued at a later date/time if she is able to be respectful.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized