I Just think "Boundaries" are an abstract that I believe I understand. I could be wrong. But I'm not here to split hairs. If I have personal policies or limitations of what I am willing to tolerate, is that not a boundary?
What I am contemplating is whether I wait for W to start an R conversation as covered in the books or do I express my personal boundaries and let her know that sweeping this last week's developments under the rug is not acceptable?
I do appreciate all the help.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.