I have no doubt at all that she has a hidden agenda that I do not have visibility into and that her mother (& her brother in this case) are helping and advising too).
But, she won't get to the passports and I'm also banking on her being here and my 180's and the family life having it's effects thousands of miles away from her family for a bit.
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????