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Originally Posted By: Rose888
[quote=RR17]So W has been nice like nothing happened, for several days. It was a week ago today that she went to see D Attorney and I've had no updates, no mention.

Typical dilemma, I am not to initiate R conversations, yet have personal boundaries. Well, my boundaries tell me that you don't get to pretend like this never happened.

Suggestions, please?


Well, I'm not sure why not. Obviously, I can't control her actions, but I can decide that I'm not going to sit still while she holds this action over my head.

I'm not here to debate the definition of Boundaries, but am I that far off?


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.