Two options: 1. Mediation - would take about 3 meetings and 6 weeks, would need to sit in room together to reach an agreement. 2. STBXH send missing info to my L. She and I talk, ask for what we want. He agrees. Could be quicker and avoids sitting in a room together. But his track record of responding promptly to L's letters or his own L is not good to date.
It occurs to me that if I wanted to gently keep the outside possibility of a reconciling door open (and I'm not sure I do), then there is a benefit to a process that takes a few weeks but needs us to see each other. What do you all think?
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
