turns out the daughters were not "fine" about his being gone for 2 years. Turns out they don't care about our 401ks.
All 4 kids have not spoken to him since February.
Which is sub optimal.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016