I wish I could channel your chillness w/ regard to this and know that whatever happens will happen without feeling like I'm putting my life on hold smirk I will try!

Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final