It's nice to hear an update from you. Good on you for putting some goals into place.
And it's funny how once you get that you've been given the gift of time, you can really accelerate the process of moving forward.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced