You clearly was a patient man to endure all of that for 3 years. Guess my question would be what is the reason you didn't get to that point sooner? Right now, I feel I definitely don't need W. But actually wanting her is rare. At this point I want her gone more days than wanting her to stay.
Also what was your W doing for 3 years? Sounds like she was just sitting around unwilling to make a real choice?