Thanks for that. Yes, I have a feeling that this will go on for a while, sadly. I just have these intense down moments that are so difficult to get through. I'm going to have to work out how to hide those when she is back.
I'm not sure it's disrespect she's showing me as much as the remnants of the intense anger. She is obviously trying to convince herself to move on in her mind and some days for her are better than others.
I have to take responsibility for alot of the damage caused in our marriage over the last year, so don't think I should set specific boundaries at the moment. I think I need to take advantage once she's back to work on my 180's and show her family life as it could be. Maybe start chipping away at the iceberg.
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????
