Thanks Athas - yep, she's a headache right now. But, I do love her and I do want to see how this can be mended.
You're one year older than me, and my wife is the same age as yours. I still love my wife and we've been separated for six months now. But she's been playing these games with me for several years until I said enough is enough and I walked out on her.
My wife doesn't respect me. And yours doesn't respect you.
I tried for years to get her on my side. Bending over backwards. Eventually I took my balls back.