After months of silence and a few weeks away from D being final, this is what STBXH is doing which is different. - wanted to start 'chatting' on the phone but didn't seem to have a purpose 6 weeks ago (I said no thank you because it seemed pointless) - even though I said clearly that after D, we wouldn't talk again, he said he 'wouldn't accept that paradigm' (whatever that means) - having avoided our old house and all practical responsibilities, suddenly decided to go there on two separate days to do 'jobs' in last fortnight (although when I went there on a later day could see no sign of anything done, and furniture/stuff still there) - he agreed a fortnight ago to use a shared gmail calendar to keep each other informed about house viewings and when either of us was back in our old town, having been very secretive about everything for a long time. And actually has done it. (I don't want to bump into him & OW having recently found out he has been partially living with a co-worker a few miles from old home, although working in another city most of the time. Disadvantage is that, like today, I know he is spending time there so with her...but I'd rather know than trip over them accidentally.) - he texted me this evening saying he was going to re-read a couple of emails (from a month ago!) and would 'reply' to me (hadn't asked for a reply, just pointed out that if he wanted to talk to me, he had to take action not just words and that the deadline was 15th Aug because of the legal process) - has not responded via his L to outstanding financial queries or other L stuff (having said on 30th June he would do so a few days later.) Echoing silence means my L has told his L that I will be applying to the Court on 16th August
Hmmm, so a few small things are different. A couple of big things - OW and not responding to L stuff - is the same.
Guesses?
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
