I'm sorry ur going through this. I don't have personal experience with this. What happened to u is very traumatic. It is similar to having PTSD. Intrusive thoughts can be triggered by a number of factors, smells, sounds, noice etc...EMDR is very effective in treating traumas. Visit their Web site to find a certified practitioner near you. Or try a counselor who has trauma specific trainig.


M 53
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Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
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