Hi AnotherStander,

Thanks for that. I'm just feeling a little frustrated right now that she's not making any effort to get started on the D. I know that I can just file and maybe I will have to. I wish I could have reached this point sooner but it took me almost 6 months to let go and realize completely that I can be so much better off without her and to stop thinking she would come back.

Now I'm the one asking her to leave me alone and just let me go. My prayers have also switched over in this way.

The gift of time though is an incredible thing. I have become more of who I should be in the past month. I just want it now to keep going and need to have the D behind me.


Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs
4 children
ILYBNILWY 1/30/17
PA confronted 3/6/17
Separated same house