Thanks for the pep talk I need as many as I can get, keep me on the straight and narrow.
I totally understand the thinking about the best friend thing and I’m not going to be that person who is trying to be better than the AP/LO it’s just that when she comes calling I’ll just be friendly and validate her, somewhat cheerlead where I feel it necessary.
“The fastest way to do it is to completely let her go and live life for you and your boys.” Yes I see this and will work towards doing this much better as after all it’s the only thing I can do that I actually have control over.
Thanks’ guys I feel I have direction if little hope.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".