Mark,

That "I need to be her best friend" bs is beta behavior that you see in today's movies that just doesn't work.

You are doing great job at improving yourself. I have no doubt you are 100% committed to getting your wife back.

The fastest way to do it is to completely let her go and live life for you and your boys.

Be mysterious, be a bad a$$, challenge yourself everyday. Trust me when I tell you she will notice.

Stay strong my friend! Either way you will be fine!