Thanks for the point to 2016sux post and it’s a great view on how to look at our situations, I agree with you that she already knows so much about me and also part of me feels hopeful as I also know so much about her! With that in mind I still don’t see her A faltering any time soon, he’s a co-worker she sees every day I have had to move out and let her carry on with him in the family home and in my bed due to the constant torture imposed on not just me but my boys also.
So she has the perfect world an A half the week when I have my boys and the family life when she gets to have them, why would she give this up..!
Thanks for the response though I really got a lot from 2016sux insight.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".