Limerence and My Situation 2

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I’m a firm believer in that people don’t leave something for something worse and without me demonstrating to her that I am the better option than the AP/LO where’s the draw?

She has known you for many years. She knows your strengths, your weaknesses, what you stand for etc. Right now with her wayward mindset, all that accounts for nothing, so I doubt there is much you can do to show her that you are the better option. With time she'll remember. Or OM will screw up. When that happens, there will be better opportunities for you to draw her closer to you. There was a great post in Teppos thread a couple of days ago (posted by 2016sux). If you haven't already, go read it.

I spent a lot of time studying the statistics as well, they mean nothing, plus some say 6 months some say 1 year etc etc. But they do however all mention that most affairs actually do die. At some point. Unfortunately all we can do, I think, is wait it out.