Still here. Still not detached...

[Teppo]

God, Chris73. I feel for you man. I'll be going through what you're going through in December when our 10-year anniversary arrives. Your story rings so true to me. I just hope, like you, I get 50% custody of my S. He loves me so much it hurts me to think how much he's going to miss me.

Unlike your situation, my W is involved in an EA and it angers me so much that the OM can be around my boy when the D is final. However, I take solace in the fact that our relationship is solid and there's no question who he knows who his Daddy is.

Stay strong, Bro.