D is home and will be going to school tomorrow as planned. I don't know what happened, but my mother in law called me as I was driving home from work and asked when I was picking her up. I could hear STBXW yelling in the background that I had to come between 6:30-7:00, which didn't work for me on no notice. MIL had no problem with my 7:30-8:00 timeframe, but STBXW was yelling that wasn't acceptable. MIL eventually yelled (like seriously YELLED) at her to shut the hell up.

I'm beginning to think that STBXW has something seriously wrong with her. I got D's backpack back, but none of the school supplies that were supposed to be sent to school with her tomorrow. I sent a text asking about those, we had a brief conversation, and she ended it with:

"D needs a simple phone because I'm not supposed to have any contact with you and you keep on. Just so you can get me in trouble. It's not ok and is not right of you."

Anybody have any experience with this? How the heck am I supposed to be getting her in trouble talking about our kid? And she could call me last night and tell me she was deciding that D lived with her now and that was ok? I understand a lawyer saying, "don't have any unnecessary contact" but this makes it sound like I have a restraining order against her or something and I'm trying to bait her into violating it.


Just keep swimming