I like your handle. Mine should be 2017sux. It's neat that we have DB friends on the other side of the pond, but I digress.
Thanks for taking the time to reply to my situation. Your post (including those from other posters) provides me with the motivation and support to change and become a better person- for me and my son.
I particularly like it when you wrote: "When she sees you looking happy and well, toned and tanned, moving on, laughing with your son, getting looks from other women - what will go through her mind?" I've got the looking happy, "well, toned and tanned" and "laughing with my son" part down, so I'm moving in the right direction. I've actually lost 16 pounds since December!
Additionally, my GALing life is really taking off, and my job prospects.
I retained a lawyer yesterday and I think I selected an excellent one that will provide me with the best possible outcome from this whole mess. I'm at the point where things have the potential to really move my way for once and I just want to start my new life.
I hope things work out for you as well.
Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress M: 44, W: 44, S: 7 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17