Thanks, I appreciate it. I feel as though my W and I are in the same boat. She wanted to get an apartment 3 weeks after she told me so I told her to go if that is what she wanted. She seems so done as well which is frustrating by itself, I think a true MLC. To date no reason to hope anything will change. I feel pretty good about where I am at though but can't believe she would want to due the same without MC or IC.

Do you feel as though she has had any regrets? I know your D was recently finalized so it may be too early.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018