Hope you had a nice evening Cil - and yes I would echo the safety aspect. That's one I never ever cut corners on...

I went out for coffee with a guy recently and we had a pleasant chat for a couple of hours. He was very nice company and I didn't feel any spark of attraction, but I was glad to break the ice and have a little male company..

Relax and enjoy xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus