A familiar story with questions..

[RR17]

Thanks, Sandi.

I realize all are here to help, although a few may not have read the books. I have tried to help other in their struggle.

All situations are not the same and I realize there are stages. Not everyone is in the same stage. Your descriptions of WW and WAW are spot on for me. I have seen the demon. The W that only thinks and speaks in negatives. The completely out of character selfishness. Not so much this go-round but the last.
I have read DR.

Things at my house are escalating fast and it is scary. I also know what doesn't work.

Things that I never realized before I have learned can affect my SITCH.
D18 is leaving for college in Sept. D that she has cleaved to in the past.
EXH of an old friend died last month.
And I am still not sure if there is OM.

I have handled things very differently this time and I see results. I just don't know if the results are a good sign or temperature taking.