Thank you all for the support, insights into online dating and for telling me I'm fabulous. We all need to hear that once in awhile. You all are fabulous, too.

Well, this fabulous lady is learning so much about online dating...my brain is full. Who knew? I'm actually going to meet a man 15 years my senior for a brew tonight. Mostly just because I was intrigued. He has two daughters that are the same ages as mine, with the oldest having gotten married the week after my oldest. I'm not even really all that excited...just interested in meeting a new person. One beer...and maybe some fries. I'm going to push for Dutch.

Peacetoday, I'm feeling I should just give this dating thing a try. When my master's program starts up again next month, my time will be limited. I'm hoping it helps me detach a bit. I love my girl friends, but I have almost no men in my life. The guy friends were XH's friends or their husbands.That's an imbalance I need to correct. Right now I have two other guys I've been talking to...just talking. I've already become an "ignorer" to quite a few. I've also gotten very picky in the past two days...I just signed up Friday.

KML, the young guys (a 23 year old today...seriously!) have been kind of creepy. Not interested in being a cougar, their mommy, or a friend to them. I DO want to wash a few of their mouths out with soap. Yes, I do look good in heels and a short skirt, but no, you don't start out your introduction to me with what I should wear and do. Sheesh.

I spoke with XH today. Its just easy and comfortable, but irritating. He refers to changes at the river house now as "we've" moved such and such or "we've" done this and that. It used to be him saying "I". I was tempted to ask who "we" is. But didn't. We did nail down a time to bring my mom in to see him. I can't wait for this. Its all become like a show to watch. And then we go back again 5 days later.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.