Still here. Still not detached...

[Chris73]

Thanks JRuss, Sorry to read about your divorce. Two years of trying sounds like a long time when the first BD hits, but now the two-year mark is only 9 months away for me. It's difficult to start looking back to a year ago and see that this was already going on in my life, during the first year that didn't happen.

I'm sure there are details in your thread, but was your divorce finalized because you decided to stop trying or was the divorce one sided and you are still trying?