Obviously you all haven't talked me out of leaving just yet wink But I guess I need to think hard when we do talk in person (sounds like tomorrow night or Friday night) about how to approach this and go from there.[b] Open ended questions like "what was your goal when you got into online dating?" What difference would ^^that make, Now?
"what would an ideal relationship look like for you?" "what in particular are you worried about with regards to us and not being 'enough'?" etc.?[/b]
^^^this is total 100% pursuit. Is that your goal? I'm asking. You are so early in this r!
Okay to me it is clear that you want more and he says he cannot give more. I'm not confused.
Sometimes he says other things but I can't tell if that is when you are prompting him or asking, or if he brings up R talk. But to me, his actions scream to back off. If there is a lasting connection, let him find it.
In any case, this is not a m or a committed r. This is a lot of second guessing for a new r. It's very early on to be having all these questions.
What if you see him when YOU BOTH have time and GAL as much as you can regardless of him? No pressure, no r talks, etc.
I think there is a big "pursuer distancer" dynamic going on and it's not working for you.
So either play it differently or walk away from the table.
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