I seriously get where your coming from. And at the end of the day, I want the MR to work out. But this person that my W has become is someone that I don't want at all. And I am all up for counselling. But W isn't having it and hasn't seen her IC in several months. Believe her IC told her the truth about herself and W didn't like it. Ran into her IC at my last IC visit. And she asked if my W was ever going to come back. Said that she can't help W if she doesn't ever show up. And even then W has to be willing to listen to the advice being given. At this point, I'm not even sure if I should still validate or be cool with W. Right now, I'm just avoiding for the most part.
