I have tried different things, being nice, inviting to breakfast etc.....I felt like I got more out of my W in terms of interaction from her but it did not change our relationship any as far as her wanting to reconcile. It seems she has really shut down since I did not invite her to my birthday party last week. I guess in some weird way that is a good thing because maybe for the first time I stood up for myself.
Good for you Joseph9. Remember that mad is not always a bad thing.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.