If you go all the way through all the LBS threads, there are a list of rules. Here: Check out #10. Its done now, but in the past you should have insisted on transparency and then you would know whether she is in an A or not. If she brings up the R conversation again (only if SHE does), then I'd casually mention how this seems eerily similar to when she had an A and ask if she is having one.
Prior to reading threads about Affairs, I was inclined to think the same thing as you. I'm not so sure now. Obviously you call though. Anyway, the rules arer a little different with an A, so I'd keep trying to see if she is in one. My sitch is very complicated, but if she is only a WAW its harder to figure out how to act IMO.
not to nitpick but I think it's very important to realize there are NO "RULES",
these are All just guidelines.
It concerns me to see the "rules" hammered so much, b/c it feels like a bandaid.
Monitor for what is working & not working, do more of the first and less/none of the latter.
That, and becoming the person YOU want to become are the two prongs of this approach.
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