I see lots of advice on how to react, how to behave, yet it is all for not?
There is no magic cure, pill or formular. This site is much about self-improvement, also a place to vent and share your story, to get input and most of all, for support.
If you follow the advice you recieve here, you still might not reconsile with your spouse. But you'll certainly move forward as a better you. And that's not half bad, is it?
Its also a place to learn about marriage, relationships, love, boundaries, and other important information about marriage and life. A self improvement website does not seem to do that IMHO.
