Reading and reading, I still don't get a clear picture. Work on myself for the things she won't identify. Act AS IF.
Detach, don't pursue. I get that.

I would love to hear what get's their attention, what has been successful at shaking them out of the fog. Do I pack my stuff?

I realize it is a complicated answer but surely someone has done/seen this and had results.

Last edited by Cadet; 08/01/17 06:38 AM. Reason: threads merged
M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.