Oh no tread, not going to tell her. It wasn't revenge or show her or anything like that. It was something for me. Mainly me fighting myself.

I've always been a good person I would like to think. Then after A it was like I needed to be a saint. I believe doing the saint thing has really kept me from moving forward. So concentrated on not making mistakes to the outside world that I drove my self mad.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old