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As I keep saying, I am completely detached. ... How to reattach, and if I am ready, well that is the thing I keep floating back to.


Blu, just curious - what does this look like in spending time with your H? Are you affectionate or do you keep your physical distance?

It's hard for me to picture having the detached attitude and also having a pleasant time. How does it work?

(And just in case, there's a total lack of sarcasm in my inquiry. I can't picture how you interact!)