So W went to talk with an attny at her brother's office.

Several hours later I texted "Did you start the process"
W: "No just got info"
Me: Okay" "BTW, the back door was left unlocked"

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.