I had a wonderful trip. Looking forward to our big vacay coming up soon. TBH, if I had taken this trip post-BD 3 years ago, I may have struggled and thought about H not being there. Now 3 years later, we went as an intact family, and I would have enjoyed it just as much had he not gone. Maybe more ... As I keep saying, I am completely detached. ... How to reattach, and if I am ready, well that is the thing I keep floating back to. That is why we need the piecers to keep posting. So that is some proof in the pudding that 1. you don't actually need your S, you just think you do, and 2. reattaching can be harder than detaching!
Thanks everyone for stopping by. I appreciate that you guys read my thread and find it helpful. And lots of good nuggets on resiliency that I will follow up on. I also need to catch up on your threads. ... The thing is tho, that part of my 180 and GAL requires me to step away from the computer! I have not been getting things done lately and I have been vegging out more than moving my body ... So I am gonna step away now and force myself off of screen time ...
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
