Well, more rules were broken. I suspected that she was opening separate accounts and probably siphoning off money, so I confronted her. Bad me.

And in a way started an R discussion. No argument and she was tender and reflected on how she was a doormat early on in the relationship and how, because of that she has nothing now.

I did point out some progress and how I'm sure that she lost all respect during the recession and blah blah blah. I validated but need to study up.
She cried and it seemed genuine, but I didn't comfort. I told her that I realized that the only person that I could control was ME and that I was prepared for whatever she decided to do.

As of now, I am leaning toward WAW over A WW. This could change.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.