I think you are reading into what she is thinking too much even if there may be clear motives there. Aren't you in NC mode?

What does she want that she is being evasive on?

Me 51, Wife 44; Married 4; Together 10;
HSD20, XWSD13, XWSS14, XWSS17
Kids Together D4, D1.52
W Moves Out: 03/16/17
W Files : 03/17/17
D Final: 10/23/17