I guess I push is because if the divorce is something he truly wants then let's get it over with. Why wait?
because 1) he does not know and 2) it's a life altering decision that most people struggle with.
I'm not acting on those words. I say them here. I used to say them to him. Not anymore. I am a cool uninterested cucumber when I am around him right now. ^^^Great to hear!
And yes after seeing what I saw this past week how I react and he reacts nice back I'm not going to set everything back 25 steps by arguiing again. That's one of the reasons I did the Reiki healing. Because I want to let go of the anger and resentment
a basic DB principle which, strangely is not stressed enough in "real life" is to
do more of what works and less of what doesn't.
Seems so simple, (and yet). We get stuck in what we think SHOULD work, or what we once thought would work...
and even in the face of a ton of evidence to the contrary, we tend to double down on behaviors that we think should work. It is hard, but it is not complicated.
We can be our own worst enemies. Keep posting.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
