Trying to stay above water

[Cristy]

So yesterday he dropped the kids off and I was watering the lawn and he was talking to me and then he kind of just stood there as if he didn't want to leave but then said well good bye guys and left.

Today I have a question. Fall will be here before I know it. And that means schedules for the kids after school activities. So what do I do? Do I continue on driving the kids everywhere. That is something I have always done. Do I continue doing this because I want him home and I don't want to stress him. Or do I make him do his half of the driving and running around etc? And just go believeing him and treating him as if he is my ex? I'm confused as to
How to proceed with that. He has already said that he can't have the kids at his house full time one week as he has no room and he doesn't want to sign a lease. So do I just bide my time and wait for him to
Come around? My gf thinks he will come around and is on the verge of coming home. But if he's not I don't want him cake eating while I do all the kid running around.

Hello Henwen,

You're working with a DB Coach, right?

I can see why negotiating the kids schedule would be confusing.

Please give me a call at 303-444-7004 and we can go ahead and get you scheduled to speak with your DB Coach.

Cristy

Resource Coordinator
The Divorce Busting Center
303-444-7004