Not sure what I have

[Cristy]

Wait a minute. Your therapist is telling you to push D and W along even though you do not want D? Your friends are saying the same?

Yes, they are telling me to keep moving forward and protect myself.

I think I need to spend some time reflecting on what it is I actually want though, I am still wounded so I haven't been totally trusting of my judgement.

At times I want to keep trying for the W and for the M. At other times I am done already. At least that's how I feel right now and it changes frequently still.

I know I have a personal time limit, but I don't know what my limit is yet. I also know I do not accept being a 2nd choice or fallback either. But both of those statements exclude the mental health scenario. This too changes day to day, but in my sitch right now, I feel that if there were not a mental health questions here that I would not be posting here right now.

Take the mental health out of the equation and my position is that I would still be hurt, but you don't need to tell me more a few times that you don't want to be in our M, so I'm done.

It's the mental health aspect that has me bound.

Hello Guzzard,

Sure, leaving might seem easier, but it isn't. Leaving just creates a different set of issues. Speaking with one of our DB Coaches will help you clarify your goals.

Cristy