Just to chronicle. All out of character and unusual in the week since D BD. All since applying "the rules".
I have had 2.5 honest sounding "I'm sorrys" with no "buts....". I have had 1 initiated dinner for 2 and named the restaurant.
All out of character
Reading tells me to look for the little things that indicate a change, but I am suspicious. I will continue working my plan and proceed with caution. It does feel good, almost too good and this is not my first rodeo. ;-)
Hello RR17,
It sounds like your changes have been noticed, just difficult to believe at this point. These changes need to be made for you and your kids. They need to be long lasting and sincere. Prove that to yourself and anyone else through your actions, not your words.
She could be temperature checking you wanting to be sure that you are still available as plan B.
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy
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