Just to chronicle.
All out of character and unusual in the week since D BD. All since applying "the rules".

I have had 2.5 honest sounding "I'm sorrys" with no "buts....".
I have had 1 initiated dinner for 2 and named the restaurant.

All out of character

Reading tells me to look for the little things that indicate a change, but I am suspicious.
I will continue working my plan and proceed with caution. It does feel good, almost too good and this is not my first rodeo. ;-)

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.