In DB it is suggested that we get a life and it sounds like you are doing the right things..taking classes getting back to work taking care of yourself
Am I reading correct to say H was a caregiver?
Maybe see how things go as you become more fun and avail for his needs definitely not easy because we are hurting so bad get some extra support there are many women who have been thru this and 12 step programs like Coda or alanon
If it is true MLC-they really change-they go through this mental illness like thinking they question their lives,,they see they are aging they want fun..the LBS is holding them back ect..
it is suggested that MLC may be unresolved past issues-so it is something they have to work through and heal their childhood and there is no easy way through it MLC can take years
best advise is to start taking really good care of yourself use the journey as an opportunity to heal your wounds and grow so you can become your best and find happiness to be there for our kids..so they have the stability of an available parent
hang in
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
