well I'm almost too angry to post. Just got off the phone from my L and h simply does not want to pay ANY spousal support. NO contact with our 3 children and cut off our d19 from college funding mid stride.
It's a 35 year m, but he's on the tundra making it harder to enforce court orders. Point being, HE is what HE DOES. And it's appalling.
He is Not what I think he used to be, he is not doing what he once did. OR what I expected or planned...
It is not what we had (or maybe had b/c I am not even sure now)
but this, now is what is.
NOT important to know why anymore, b/c endless wondering is endless suffering.
And so I'm on notice that THIS is what I must respond to, and nothing else.
If that changes, I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.
Not sure if this^^ helps you at all, but I see you spinning and I'm done spinning.
I'm awake now.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016