Dang it! Sorry, messed up the quote tags in that last post, it should look like this:
Originally Posted By: Coconut
While I realize that this could be interpreted as her saying she wishes I still lived back in FL because it makes her sad that I'm so far AND that it would ALSO be great for son, my interpretation is just that she wishes I was around more often for son.
I only have the texts to base this on, but I agree that it sounds like she was talking about you being there for S and not so much for her benefit.
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With that said, to anyone going through this now, just remember that it to shall pass. Best to know how you want to handle yourself in these types of situations so that you don't get caught up in the moment and instead have a plan on how you want to handle it. Keep in mind that what your going through will be a distant memory in the not to distant future, but you will need to live with the actions you take now, so be prepared to handle yourself accordingly when the moment presents.
Very well said!! WAS's (and especially MLCers) will do some really nasty, ugly things. It is up to us to be an example to our kids and others and to ALWAYS take the moral high road. When we conduct ourselves with honor and dignity, it doesn't matter what the WAS says or does to drag us through the mud. Others will SEE the truth for themselves.
